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2 Things A Reluctant & Struggling Reader Have In Common?

Updated: Dec 18, 2025

2 Things A Reluctant & Struggling Reader Have In Common?


Is your child a reluctant or struggling reader?


When children have reading challenges, they are often grouped into one category: struggling reader. However, children struggle with reading for different reasons, and understanding why makes all the difference.


Some children have difficulty sounding out words, remembering what they read, or identifying rhyming words. Others can read—but simply refuse to do so.


To simplify these challenges, reading difficulties generally fall into two categories:


  1. The Reluctant Reader

  2. The Struggling Reader


Although these terms are often used interchangeably, they are not the same.


The Reluctant Reader


A reluctant reader is a child who can read but won't. This child may avoid reading by clowning around, misbehaving, or becoming frustrated when asked to read. Reluctant readers rarely read for pleasure and do not view reading as enjoyable.


Instead, they often prefer activities like playing outside, watching TV, YouTube, or playing video games.


Why are these readers Reluctant?


Before motivating a reluctant reader, it’s important to identify why they avoid reading. Common reasons include:


  • Reading feels boring or uninteresting

  • Difficulty maintaining attention

  • Not understanding the benefits of reading


Should you be concerned for a Reluctant reader?


Yes.


When a child who can read stops reading, their learning is impacted. Reading builds vocabulary, comprehension, and the ability to express ideas in both speaking and writing. Without consistent reading practice, children struggle more as texts become increasingly complex.


The Struggling Reader


A struggling reader is a child who experiences difficulty learning how to read. These challenges may stem from:


  • Speech or language delays

  • Specific learning difficulties

  • English as a second language

  • Gaps or weaknesses in early reading instruction

  • Or a combination of these factors


Because reading is difficult and frustrating, many struggling readers also become reluctant readers over time.


How to Spot a Struggling Reader?


Struggling readers often hide their difficulties. Reading can become a major source of embarrassment, leading children to develop avoidance strategies.


Common signs include:


  • Difficulty recognizing or remembering letters

  • Trouble completing familiar rhymes

  • Difficulty sounding out or blending words

  • Guessing words instead of decoding

  • Avoiding reading aloud

  • Delayed speech or language development


Additional subtle warning signs may include:


  • Making excuses to avoid reading

  • Rushing through assignments

  • Taking longer than peers to complete work

  • Strong verbal vocabulary but weak written vocabulary

  • Frequent careless reading errors

  • Missed or incomplete assignments


How to Help a Struggling Reader?


Many parents share the same concern:

“I don’t know how to teach reading—I just know how to read.”

Struggling readers need structured, explicit phonics instruction. If teaching phonics feels overwhelming, support can come from a classroom teacher or a trained reading tutor.


What You Can Do at Home


In addition to professional support, parents can help by:


  • Reading aloud nightly with picture books

  • Visiting the library regularly

  • Allowing children to choose what they read

  • Providing a variety of reading materials

  • Reading school materials aloud together


Consistent practice at the child’s reading level builds confidence, fluency, and self-esteem.


Commonalities Between the two types of readers


Despite their differences, both types of readers share two key needs:


  1. They struggle to read independently

  2. They need consistent, dedicated reading support


My name is Monique the Unique, an online reading tutor. It is my mission to transform reluctant and struggling readers into confident, lifelong readers.


If your elementary-aged child needs reading support, sign up for a FREE reading assessment today.



 
 
 
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